Monday, July 11, 2011

When It All Began

I attended school in Piedmont, Alabama from the time i was in preschool till i finished eighth grade. I was always a very good student. I was never in any kind of trouble and i had all A's. I transferred to Spring Garden High School after my mother met and fell in love with my step father. I was not happy about the move because Spring Garden was a rival school of Piedmont and i did not want to leave my friends. The first day was the roughest of all because i didn't know anyone, but i soon found the girls that i was proud to call my best friends. My freshman and sophmore years flew by but i enjoyed them very much. I played volleyball my freshman year and i was a cheerleader my sophmore year. After cheering the entire football season and most of the basketball season, i realized just how stuck up and self absorbed most of the girls on the squad were and i quit in a very immature, but hillarious way. I had a couple of pretty serious relationships during my high school years. But my life became really interesting the end of my junior year. My best friends, (we will call them Brittany and Brianna) introduced me to a guy that their niece was dating. After this guy ( we will call him Taylor) and their niece broke up, him and i began talking. We started dating really quick after we met. It became a "physical"  relationship and after dating only a couple of months, I found out that i was pregnant. At the time, he was out of town "working" a lot with his brother. I was very very scared because i was only 17. I knew that i had no way to raise that child on my own. I finally got up the nerve to tell my mother, and she would not talk to me for two days. After the shock had kind of wore off she began talking to me again and she told me that we would make it. Taylor told me that he would be there for me. He said that even if we split up he would still help take care of the child. I believed him. Well, about a week after we found out i was pregnant i went to Montgomery, Alabama for a cosmetology competition. After i got back things started going downhill for us. When i was about four months pregnant, i broke up with him because he was not making me happy anymore. He had changed so much in the last four months. I started my senior year of high school with more drama in my life then i ever thought was possible. Well, after we split up, i was told that he had been cheating on me. When i found out that he had cheated on me, he started saying that i cheated on him while i was in Montgomery for that competition. That was not even the bad part. It got way worse. First i found out that the girl he cheated on me with was pregnant. Then, i found out that he was now dating my sister. After him and my sister got together, he started denying my baby. Well needless to say, Taylor did not offer any help to me what so ever. Well my pregnancy started getting pretty rough. I went into preterm labor at least four times and my doctor took me out of school for almost four months. My doctor decided to induce me so i could be home for Christmas. I gave birth to my beautiful little girl Whitney Elizabeth at 9:40 am on December 21, 2009. She was 6 lbs 15 oz and 19.3 inches long. She was so beautiful and so healthy. Taylor never tried to see her or offered to buy her a box of diapers. I took care of my daughter with the financial, mental, and physical help from my mother. My life was amazing at this point. I had a beautiful little girl that i loved more than anything, a mother who is a saint, and i was on track to graduate with the top of my class. I did not know how my life could get any better and i for sure didnt't think anything could go wrong. Then i found out that my sister was pregnant, by Taylor. What kind of man does that? Then it just got worse. Taylor and my sister moved four states away to live with MY father. They turned my father against me and we still do not speak to this day. I was upset a lot after finding out about my sister being pregnant, until some friends introduced me to this amazing man named Sean Sweeney. (i am going to stop right here and make yall wonder about what happens next, but i will finish out this story later on)

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